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What to do if Parents are Against Love Marriage

Even though the whole world accepts changes happening in our society India has not changed yet. The main example that proves it is the take of Indian parents towards love marriage. They don’t accept love marriages easily. There are some traditional and ritual believes going on in India even now. Indian parents are very much believing in them and they are afraid of society and the people around them. Caste and religion systems are existing in that society even now and they want to marry their daughter or son in the same caste and religion.

Many Indian Hindu parents check matches between the birth chart of boy and girl before proceeding with marriages. If the matches and free from any doshas in future, then only they will proceed with that relation. This is a belief of Indian parents that astrology can solve all their problems and it is true also. Vedic Astrology is an old science that exists for so many years. A good love Astrologer can check the birth chart and find whether it matches each other or not. Indian parents check Kundli match for love marriages too to make sure that their match won’t cause future problems in their life.

Why Indian parents are against love marriage.

  • They are afraid of facing religious and cultural issues if they allow their children to do love marriage. It very difficult to adjust with a boy or girl who does not belong to their own caste or religion.

  • They are afraid of other family members and people around them who says about their child marry someone who belongs to other religion. It is very difficult to live in a society without the co-operation of people around them

  • They don’t want to lose the reputation of their family by marrying someone who doesn’t belong to their religion/caste. Indian parents believe that it is better to die than allowing their children to marry a boy/girl from other caste/religion.

  • Indian parents think that they only have the rights to select a perfect partner for their children. It is very difficult to convince them to agree to love marriage

  • In rural areas, parents will give strong punishments for their children if they try to marry without their permission. 

Here are some tips for lovers. They can try it these tips to convince their parents.
Astrological tips to convince your parents

Let your lover meet your parents
According to Astrologers, it is not easy to convince Indian parents. First step you can follow is to let your lover meet your parents and talk with them openly. Try to mingle with family and consider them as your own parents. There are love astrologers in India who can help you to convince your parents. 
Convince your parents with the help of communal leaders
You can get the help of some important peoples in your community and take them to convince parents. They can easily manipulate by saying the best things about love marriage. You can also partner with a good love Astrologer and take him to talk to your lover’s parents. He can convince by saying the best things when the birth charts of couples meet.

Let both families meet together

Marriages are more than meeting two hearts. In India, both families have to meet each other and feel comfortable with each other. When your parents will get comfortable with him this can help with your marriage easily. Best astrologers who specialize in love marriages can help to convince both families. He can easily convince them to make this marriage happen. 


It is very important to happen marriages with the blessings of your parents. Without a strong family support, it is very difficult to lead a happy life. If you don’t have a birth chart yet consult with an astrologer and make one. Indian parents hardly believe that it is inauspicious to carry out a marriage without matching kundli properly. Astrologers are out there who can predict love marriage prediction by date of birth. With proper match, you can go forward with your marriage. They also suggest remedies if they find any problem in matching. So, without waiting find a good astrologer and check kundli match of you and your partner..

It can be devastating when you think you've found the perfect partner and your parents disapprove of them. If you're close to your parents, you want their approval of your marriage. But you also want to remain loyal to the person you're committing to spending the rest of your life with. The upshot: You're torn with a capital T.

Don't use emotional blackmail on your parents to get them to come around—even if there's a pregnancy involved and/or you're a minor who needs their legal consent to marry. Try to understand your folks' willingness to be disliked by you as a sign of their love for you. Realize that if you and your partner are truly in love, waiting a few years to get married won't destroy your love for one another. 

Some possible reasons your parents might not like your partner include:

  • They might be concerned that your partner is not right for you

  • They might be concerned for your safety and well-being

  • They may have noticed behaviors or interactions that raise concerns

  • They might be jealous

  • They might disapprove that you are marrying someone from outside of your cultural or religious background

  • There might be a lack of boundaries1

Sometimes parental disapproval is rooted in genuine concerns. In other cases, dislike might stem from personality differences. But it can also result from dysfunctional family relationships.

Poor parental boundaries might also contribute to their disapproval of your relationship. In such cases, creating and enforcing clear boundaries may help.

Regardless of the reasons, research has shown that parental disapproval of relationships can take a toll on your marriage.

While it can be a challenging subject, it is important to have a frank conversation with your folks about why they don't like your partner or approve of your marrying. Calmly and respectfully allow them to voice their objections.

You may that your parents haven't had a chance to get to know your partner. Or maybe their opposition is based on a misunderstanding. If you can get to the bottom of the problem, you may be able to reassure them that your partner will make a good spouse.

Conversely, there's also the possibility that your parents have a legitimate issue. Maybe your partner has cheated on you in the past or has been too controlling or demanding. You may realize your parents' concerns are valid and that you should seriously consider them—and maybe talk them over with a trusted friend or family member to get their take too.

You may not like what your parents say about your significant other. But unless you have strong evidence otherwise (for instance, maybe they're prejudiced against people of your partner's race or religion), give them the benefit of the doubt. Their advice comes from a place of love and protection.



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